Well!!! i was going for an appointment yesterday and just then...i remembered that wen i was back home till last year, ma mom never allowed me to go out without having something... followed by the BULLFIGHTS that i had with ma darling bro and sweet sis over silly things...I mean really silly...wud love to share some of the frequent topics of our fights..
"TUNE MERA PEN KAISE LIYA???"
" MUMMY!! ISNE MERI CHOCOLATE KHA LI!!! "
" REMOTE MUJE DE..MUJE CHANNEL CHANGE KARNA HAI.."
OH!!! i really miss ma family a lot since i hav come to bangalore to pursue my MBA and have started living on ma own..
Well......but this has nothing to do with wat im going to write..wen, i was in my this NOSTALGIC MODE...I realized that RELATIONSHIPS are so important for human-beings...they give us a strong reason to live our life...an urge to grow ahead...a desire to prove ourself..a challenge to meet...a goal to achieve.....a path to victory...
By god's grace, im blessed with a very huge frnz circle..a lot many times...i have heard dm saying that they want to score 9GPA coz dy want to make dr parents feel happy...some1 wants to do it for his GF...(SO CALLED..)....some are studying hard coz dr frnz r studying hard2...Some1 is competing with the roommates...very rarely, i have heard people or seen people doing something really passionately coz dy enjoy doing dt..AND THEY WANT TO DO DT!!! very rarely!!!
But watever feeling or emotion is dt...it is compelling all of us to do something which is ultimately going to benefit us...I mean my 9GPA can fetch a good job for me..not for ma darling parents...Ma scholarship will add to ma profile..and all my certificates will eventually help ME ONLY to develop the required skill-set...
Now, i will take an altogether different turn here..trying to understand the significance of relationships further...EVEN OUR HINDU RELIGION also reminds us of our beautiful relationships every now and then....
Be it RAKSHA BANDHAN....d celebration of eternal love between not only brother and sister...but also between all the siblings...as the whole ceremony brings every1 ultimately close to each other in family...
Be it holi, the festival of frolic and fun...with all ur frnz..neighbours..relatives..all near and dear ones...plus all dose people wuth whom v cum across while playing with beaytiful colours and develop a strong frndshp henceforth...
Diwali!!! bursting crackers....distributing sweets...and doing pooja with family...another occassion to sit with ur family and celebrate the togetherness and love that v share ...
World is full of festivals like KARVA CHAUTH..BHAI DOOJ...and d list goes on and on...
Similarly, they have days...FATHER'S DAY.. MOTHER'S DAY...VALENTINE'S DAY..
All these occassions might have an altogether different story attached to them as in how did they come into the scenario..they do have different values attached to dm as well...but they all identify and promote the social nature of the human-being...NO FESTIVAL IS CELEBRATED IN ISOLATION ANJD SOLITUDE...
Every1 of us have our own set of emotional, mental, intellectual, physical and social needs...which associate us with different people with different feelings...and wen these feeling last for a longer time...RELATIONSHIPS ARE BORN...
Still, we sometimes want to be with ourselves only.. spend time with our own self...try and understand who v r...Sometimes...it feels divine to be all alone...and that SOLITUDE looks absolutely heavenly to me at dt time...
This crazy aspect of me of enjoying myself sometimes and living the life of a die-heart extrovert at other time force me to think and analyse the orientation of my personality...which might help me to understand the extent of ma social nature......
WHY???
I dont no...
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